Mindset Chat with Amy Jacobs | Dec 29, 2023 001

Tucker Martin (33:23.862)
Yeah, I love that. And I think that's such a, I think that practice is so good to implement. Um, I wish I would have had that in high school and college a little more. Like I'm really thankful for my parents because they were always very like, no, if you want to do it, go do it. And, um, I just, there's so much available now that.

health and life coaching, you know, that Amy is certified in. And some of these little like tips that get blown over a lot, and I mean, I know a lot of that is sometimes when you're younger, you tend to tune out the good advice. So hopefully this space right here is a place where you can come and filter through some of that and find what's going to work for you because...

Tucker Martin (34:21.342)
just still trying to figure out what it is that we want and hone in on that and get closer to that every day. And if I would have had the clarity of vision that I have now when I was in high school, it kind of freaks me out to think of like where I could have been on some things. Like, like if I would have started, you know, the mindset practices around finances, around

um, you know, like career goals or like a breeding program or a truck or whatever that is Probably wouldn't have been, you know 25 before I had a reliable vehicle um As it was I was like, nope, I want my first gen dodge this gonna have You know, which is cool. That was my priority then but Had I been aware of no ultimately what do I want?

passed on that truck for a couple more months so I could have had something I could have hauled the rodeo in. And as it was, you know, I got the truck I thought I wanted and it was great and I was proud of it and I had so much fun and I missed that truck every day. But the fact of the matter is...

that truck no longer than three or four hour drives at a time without it having some kind of an issue.

Tucker Martin (35:50.186)
Now, that helps with like what Amy said, just be aware. You don't have to necessarily be like, oh no, this party is a waste of time, I'm out of here. They'll be like, yeah, this is not really the kind of people I wanna be around. Or maybe it is and that's fine, but at least you check that box in your head and have that, yeah.

Amy Jacobs (36:18.74)
Yeah, judgment free too. Like you don't, you don't have to be mad at yourself. You don't have to judge yourself. You don't have to feel like everyone around you is judging you. It's just, you have to just look at it very neutrally of like, okay, this isn't what I want or okay, this is what I want and I want more of this.

Tucker Martin (36:29.042)
Yep. That's exactly right. I love that so much because it gives us like that framework to move forward on. And I think there's a, there's a quote that goes around social media all the time. That's something, you know, if it's not, I think you'll know what I'm trying to talk about, but think about what you want.

closer to it say no say no to everything that isn't that and I love that because the rest of that's just distractions so if you can kind of hone in on that dream you want to raise this kind of quarter horse cool so don't buy the thoroughbred if you want to raise a thoroughbred don't waste your time on the quarter horse and if you want to

Amy Jacobs (37:05.507)
Yes.

Tucker Martin (37:21.686)
get roping down before you start to do something else before you start running barrels or whatever and a lot of that stuff goes hand in hand your horsemanship's horsemanship but for the point being don't get sidetracked working at Walmart if you want to be a vet.

Tucker Martin (37:43.19)
You know, if you want to be around horses, then, then don't take the job that's going to put you in proximity of horses. Don't take the job that sends you into the middle of the city. And it's, it's sounds really simple. It's a lot harder when you're the one in the decision, but hopefully some of these tips and the conversation that we've had today kind of bring some of that to the forefront of your mind and helps you weed out some of those decisions and, and maybe gives you a little bit of clarity on.

how to handle the emotions around those things and the ups and downs of life. Amy, is there anything else you wanted to add?

Tucker Martin (38:24.759)
Okay, awesome, awesome. Well, thank you so much, Amy, for hopping on with me today. And thank you all for listening. I am just super excited to have this one wrapped up and in the books and watch for the next one. Thanks guys.